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Consent is...

A freely-given yes! Anything else is a no!

The only person responsible for sexual violence is the person who chooses to cross another person’s boundaries. It is never the fault of the person who experiences it.

Voluntary

Consent can never be forced. This includes threats, pressure, guilt, bribery, blackmail and physical violence.

Enthusiastic

Consent is someone communicating “yes” with their words, tone and actions. It is not the absence of a “no”.

Individual

Only you can consent for you. Even if you’re dating or married you always need your partner’s consent.

Specific

Consent is given to specific people and to specific acts. Consent can’t be given ahead of time, only in the moment.

Sober

People can’t consent to sexual activity if they are highly intoxicated from drugs or alcohol, or if they’re sleeping or unconscious.

Services for Youth

SACE provides free support to people of all genders, ages 3+, who have experienced sexual violence, including sexual harassment, sexual assault, and child sexual abuse.

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Support & Information Lines

For anyone who has experienced sexual violence or who is supporting someone impacted by it, there are support services available through phone, text, or chat to provide callers with information, support, and referrals.

The conversation on these lines is led by the caller, and the caller will never have to talk about anything they don’t want to talk about.

9 a.m. – 9 p.m.
SACE Support & Info Line
1.780.423.4121


Alberta’s ONE LINE

Chat: sace.ca > click the orange icon on the bottom right of the page.

Text, long distance & interpreter support:
1.866.403.8000

Two beanbag chairs angled towards each other and surrounded by small therapeutic toys suggest the friendly feel of child and youth counselling services at SACE

Counselling

SACE Counsellors provide up to 15 sessions of free counselling. Our counselling is non-judgmental and trauma-informed. This means that the counsellors work from a place of believing  and they know that sexual violence is never the fault of the person who experienced harm.

People under the age of 18 require consent from their guardian(s) to access counselling at SACE. If this is a concern, please talk about this with our intake worker.

Intake for counselling is done over the phone by calling our office.

Additional Resources for Youth

SACE provides free support to people of all genders, ages 3+, who have experienced sexual violence, including sexual harassment, sexual assault, and child sexual abuse.

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Need Help Now

NeedHelpNow.ca

Cyber bullying & non-consensual photo sharing

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Sexual Assault Response Team (SART)

AlbertaHealth
Services.ca

Medical service accessible through any Edmonton Zone hospital emergency room

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CHEW Project

ChewProjectYEG

LGBTQ2S+ mental, social and sexual health support

Definitions

The improper exposure of a child to any sexual contact, activity, or behaviour. This includes all sexual touching, the invitation to touch, exhibitionism, exposure to pornography.

Forcing another individual, through violence, threats (physical or emotional), pressure, deception, guilt, to engage in sexual activities against their will.

A voluntary agreement between 2 or more people to engage in sexual activity. Consent must be clear, informed, voluntary, sober, act and person-specific, ongoing, mutual, active, and come directly from the individuals engaging in the sexual contact. It is impossible to get consent from children, though close-in-age  and peer-experimentation exceptions exist for youth ages 12-15.

A society or environment in which obtaining consent and respecting boundaries is the norm, for both sexual contact and everyday activities.

The advocacy of women’s rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.

An intersectional approach to service delivery that acknowledges that the root of sexual violence is power inequality and works to reduce barriers that groups and individuals face when seeking support and volunteer or employment opportunities.

When an intimate photo or video is shared or taken without the voluntary consent (read consent definition above) of the person in the photo or video (Source: savedmonton.com)

Person-first language recognizes that a person is more than any one experience and that labels are sometimes harmful. People who have experienced sexual violence may use terms like victim or survivor to describe themselves, or they may use words like offender or perpetrator to describe the person who harmed them. Terms that resonate for one person may not fit for another person for a variety of reasons, and SACE supports a person’s right to self-determine their identity and experience. This is why at SACE, we default to person-first language such as “person who experienced sexual assault”, or “person who used abusive behavior”, unless speaking with or about an individual who has identified how they would like their experience to be talked about.

A society or environment whose prevailing social attitudes have the effect of normalizing or trivializing sexual assault and abuse.

Sex trafficking is a form of sexual exploitation. Human trafficking for the purposes of sexual exploitation is a crime and Canada has specific legislation in the Criminal Code (S. 279) and in the IRPA (Immigrant and Refugee Protection Action) (S. 117 & 118) to address all types of human trafficking (sexual exploitation, labour exploitation, organ, debt servitude) There are three elements to constitute human trafficking: Action + Means + Purpose.

Sexual abuse is most often used to refer to Child Sexual Abuse. To learn more about this, read the definition above or our section on Child Sexual Abuse.

Any form of sexual contact without voluntary consent, including unwanted: oral contact (kissing); sexual touching; oral-genital contact; and/or vaginal or anal penetration. 

Any actual or attempted abuse of a position of vulnerability, differential power, or trust, for sexual purposes, including, but not limited to, profiting monetarily, socially or politically from the sexual exploitation of another.

Any unwanted comment, gesture, or action that is sexual in nature that makes someone feel afraid, embarrassed, uncomfortable or ashamed. The intention of the person doing the action doesn’t matter, it’s the negative impact the action has that makes something sexual harassment.

Sexual violence is an umbrella term that refers to any form of non-consensual sexual behavior, including sexual assault, sexual abuse, sexual harassment, sexual exploitation, sex trafficking, and sexual violence facilitated through technology.

Consent is…Freely Given. Never Assumed.

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